Charly Boy’s ‘Virgin’ Shanene writes on mistakes people make in relationship

Area fada himself Charly boy formally introduced his ‘Virgins’ during his father’s burial. He  released several firerce photos with them after that. Here is a write up by one of his ‘Virgins’ named Shanene where she talked about mistakes people make in relationships. I’m still wondering how she’s grounded in that subject since they’re supposed to be virgins, lol. Wait until you read to the last line…

“Most times we all get into a relationship without asking ourselves the most important question that may possibly define the whole essence of the liaison with another individual. The focus is usually on the emotional need- I love this person, or this person fills an emotional longing i.e companionship or for the more obvious physical sexual need.

We fail to ask what we want from the relationship, where we intend to progress with the relationship and how much of ourselves we intend to bring to the table.
One can't truly have any meaningful bond with another if there are self-inhibitions stopping you from blossoming and expressing who you are.

In the cycle of life, we take experiences from our previous encounters and good or bad, dump them on the new person we are dealing with. We place definition on what we think we should be with that new partner and also in our heads, place duration of where that relationship should lead to. To me, that's a yardstick for failure.

If you feel the need to be different from whom you are, act roles you’re not just to please a lover, hmmm one day you will not need to act mad when you run indeed run gaga! The key factor is to be true to yourself, love yourself and that radiance will reflect through you and only attract the vibes you give out. Light begets light!

As I laze about in bed this morning serenading my spirit with thoughts of you, yearning to lie in those strong comforting arms of yours, I start to discover what you truly mean to me.
You see me! When I'm with you, I don't have to worry about being anyone else.
You see me! You see my strengths and want to make them stronger.
You see me! You see my inhibitions and want to free me from them.
You see me. You see my fears and want to teach me how to overcome them.
You see me even when I can't see myself.

The surreal encounter that brought you my way wasn't just chance, but an answer to a prayer sent to the spirit realm, willing a man who would be a friend, who would make my life radiate. Someone I could truly love, someone in whose friendship I can find comfort, peace and joy.
So now I don't wonder if I love you, I know why I'm in love with you. I prayed for a caring, honest, and strong man who will steer me into a new phase of life, a rebirth of self and I was blessed with the most wonderful person ever! Who makes me feel so loved and special hmmmmmm Lucifer, your beautiful soul makes loving you so complicated yet so easy, so joyous, so peaceful. I know this journey is going to make me stop existing and show me how to start living.
So today, I wake up most thankful that for all that God has blessed me with, he included you, my morning star, my Lucifer.

Thank you for being in my life
I love you.................”